Seductively What ?
I am a total cookbook junkie, I love cookbooks and I actually use them. I try out recipe's, then make them my own, by adding or taking away ingredients. I was rummaging through a box of cookbooks, that I had inherited from my late aunts and one of them caught my eye.
The book was published in 1962 by Random House and is called 'The Seducer's Cookbook'. What a catchy title, right! The cover says, helpful and hilarious hints for 20 situations, into which men may lure women and vice versa. I took it out and browsed the pages, amused that someone actually published this.
Both of my aunts were single when they passed, they never married. I guess it made me realize, that they did try. As I thumbed through the pages, at the top of a page, there were the words...."How to get him to marry you".
This is a guide, of what to cook to lure him in and what to cook for 'him' after bed. I found great humor, in the pages I have read so far. It makes me think of how things really were in "The Good Old Days". It made me remember an 'old saying', that I always heard from my grandmother, "The way to a man's heart, is through his stomach".
Well, I can hold my own in the kitchen and my grandmother knows that. How ever, I can say that my cooking definitely has not landed me a husband, nor was I trying for one. I do find it very hard to believe, that if I were to cook a guy, Clams on the half shell, with truffles and chives, that he is going to marry me.
The book really does have humor, one illustration, is of a woman standing at the stove fully clothed, wearing an apron, with a caption that says "It's bad form to cook without clothes on, even if you do use an apron".
How times have changed and Amen for that! These days, a man will be thrilled to come home and find his woman wearing nothing but an apron, as she cooks his dinner. Back then, they would have as well, they just didn't talk about it as openly as they do now.
Using food to seduce someone is very possible, throw yourself in the picture as a human plate, for your man to eat his food from and the game will definitely change. It's always about the way you play the game, that determines how the game will go.
Though the author Mimi Shelton, had a great concept for the book, society went in the opposite direction. I do agree with her, that seduction is something that has become forgotten. Partly in fault, woman have gave to much, to fast and stopped making the guys work for it.
Even married couples forget to keep seducing each other, that's why most marriages fail. The flirting stops, the cooking the seductive meals stop and they fall out of love. Though I'm not an expert and I don't have a PHD, I have witnessed enough in my life time, to realize it.
These days, guys forget to seduce women as well, it's as if internet porn took over and prevented them from taking the time, to put the thought into the romance and seduction. Times have changed and the 'Old Fashioned' way of dating, has become extinct and it's sad.
If you're looking for a good read, I do suggest searching for the book, it will make you laugh. I am curious, what food would you use to seduce someone?
Do you really think that baking him an Apple-Pecan Tart, will get him to marry you?
Here's hoping to many seductive thoughts for us all, in 2015!
Everyone Have a Happy New Year! (filled with seduction and romance of course!)
Bobbie
XoXoXo
The book was published in 1962 by Random House and is called 'The Seducer's Cookbook'. What a catchy title, right! The cover says, helpful and hilarious hints for 20 situations, into which men may lure women and vice versa. I took it out and browsed the pages, amused that someone actually published this.
Both of my aunts were single when they passed, they never married. I guess it made me realize, that they did try. As I thumbed through the pages, at the top of a page, there were the words...."How to get him to marry you".
This is a guide, of what to cook to lure him in and what to cook for 'him' after bed. I found great humor, in the pages I have read so far. It makes me think of how things really were in "The Good Old Days". It made me remember an 'old saying', that I always heard from my grandmother, "The way to a man's heart, is through his stomach".
Well, I can hold my own in the kitchen and my grandmother knows that. How ever, I can say that my cooking definitely has not landed me a husband, nor was I trying for one. I do find it very hard to believe, that if I were to cook a guy, Clams on the half shell, with truffles and chives, that he is going to marry me.
The book really does have humor, one illustration, is of a woman standing at the stove fully clothed, wearing an apron, with a caption that says "It's bad form to cook without clothes on, even if you do use an apron".
How times have changed and Amen for that! These days, a man will be thrilled to come home and find his woman wearing nothing but an apron, as she cooks his dinner. Back then, they would have as well, they just didn't talk about it as openly as they do now.
Using food to seduce someone is very possible, throw yourself in the picture as a human plate, for your man to eat his food from and the game will definitely change. It's always about the way you play the game, that determines how the game will go.
Though the author Mimi Shelton, had a great concept for the book, society went in the opposite direction. I do agree with her, that seduction is something that has become forgotten. Partly in fault, woman have gave to much, to fast and stopped making the guys work for it.
Even married couples forget to keep seducing each other, that's why most marriages fail. The flirting stops, the cooking the seductive meals stop and they fall out of love. Though I'm not an expert and I don't have a PHD, I have witnessed enough in my life time, to realize it.
These days, guys forget to seduce women as well, it's as if internet porn took over and prevented them from taking the time, to put the thought into the romance and seduction. Times have changed and the 'Old Fashioned' way of dating, has become extinct and it's sad.
If you're looking for a good read, I do suggest searching for the book, it will make you laugh. I am curious, what food would you use to seduce someone?
Do you really think that baking him an Apple-Pecan Tart, will get him to marry you?
Here's hoping to many seductive thoughts for us all, in 2015!
Everyone Have a Happy New Year! (filled with seduction and romance of course!)
Bobbie
XoXoXo
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