What a Woman Wants
Yes, it's a known fact that we are moody, it's really not our fault, we are controlled by hormones. Yes, we may or may not have difficulties, making men understand what makes us happy. We are women and we deal with so much, raising kids, running a household and working full time jobs.
On top of all of that, we are expected to keep a man happy! For most of us women; it becomes easy for us to forget, what makes us happy, we are busy putting everything and everyone else before ourselves. Sometimes, we simply forget to make ourselves happy.
Throw in a messed up Thyroid, on top of the hormones and we can become dis-functional, emotional creatures. We don't come with a 'How To Operate' instructional manual, just as men don't come with a 'Fact Tag', to tell us what we are getting, when we pick a man. 'Warning Labels' are never included when it comes to people, it's all part of the fun, of the 'Game of Life'.
Most of us women, really are easy to please and what makes us happy, really isn't that difficult. Here is my list of 'What a Woman Wants'.
On top of all of that, we are expected to keep a man happy! For most of us women; it becomes easy for us to forget, what makes us happy, we are busy putting everything and everyone else before ourselves. Sometimes, we simply forget to make ourselves happy.
Throw in a messed up Thyroid, on top of the hormones and we can become dis-functional, emotional creatures. We don't come with a 'How To Operate' instructional manual, just as men don't come with a 'Fact Tag', to tell us what we are getting, when we pick a man. 'Warning Labels' are never included when it comes to people, it's all part of the fun, of the 'Game of Life'.
Most of us women, really are easy to please and what makes us happy, really isn't that difficult. Here is my list of 'What a Woman Wants'.
- Your attention: yes we love having a man's attention, so carve out some time during your day and let us have some.
- Romance: We love romance, star gazing is a great place to start, throw in a blanket, a bottle of wine and some candles and we are happy. Besides, romantic gestures always lead to what men want, sex.
- Affection: Kiss us, hold our hands in public, massage our shoulders, we love it when your hands are touching us, in all the good ways.
- Cook: Not all of us care if a man doesn't have culinary skills, the simple gesture, of making us a Peanut Butter and Jelly sandwich makes us happy. It's the thought that counts.
- Effort: Put effort into doing anything on this list, showing no effort at all, makes us furious.
- Flowers: Buy us a simple rose, pick us wild flowers, not all of us expect the huge bouquet of roses, though we won't complain about getting them, it's the thought and effort that count.
- Don't make us 'Nag': Take out the garbage, before we ask. Help us out around the house, just don't make us nag. We hate nagging, as much as men hate hearing it.
- Little things: Do the little things, make us coffee, send us text messages with a simple I love you, check the oil in our cars, do some of our favorite things. Remember our birthday and every other special day, by using the calendar on your cell phone, so you won't forget.
- Show-Don't tell: Show us that you love us, don't just tell us that you do. Actions speak louder than words.
- Marriage: We grew up believing in fairy tales and happily ever after. We want the Ring, the Wedding, the Marriage, the Family and the House with the white picket fence. If you have no intention of marrying a woman, let her go and let her find someone that will, don't waste her time or yours. Unless she is clear, that marriage isn't what she wants.
There it is, my top ten list of 'What a Woman Wants'. I challenge any man, anywhere, to try any one thing on this list, to prove that I am correct.
Everyone have a great week!
Bobbie
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